One of the most common questions I get is “who is supposed to pay?” This is a matter of personal preference. But after interviewing other successful online daters, I’ve found that there’s a way that things will usually play out. Date One The male should pay. Sorry guys. Call me old-fashioned but you do have […]

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This is an excerpt from my book, SPIN YOUR WEB: HOW TO BRAND YOURSELF FOR SUCCESSFUL ONLINE DATING Topics Pre-determine a number of topics you’d like to discuss. Stick to things you’re passionate about. Men, it can’t just be sports. Women, it can’t just be fashion. Everyone, it cannot be just television. Talking about media and […]

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Breaking up or being dumped can leave a lasting scar that negatively impacts one’s daily activities and well-being.  Quite often both men and women are stuck moving forward, and in some cases putting their lives back together.   Special guest blogger Colin Christopher is a clinical hypnotherapist certified by the American Council of Hypnotist Examiners, […]

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They say opposites attract for good reason but every four years couples that sit on different ends of the political spectrum find themselves wishing they had done what their mother suggested and found a nice Republican/Democrat to settle down with. While politics are not something that should define the person that you fall in love […]

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If you’re not using online or mobile dating to meet that special someone how are you meeting potential dates? Friends? Blind dates? Church?? Chances are you’re probably resorting to going out to bars, getting rip-roaring drunk to let your inhibitions down, and not meeting anyone of quality. It might seem easy to meet someone special […]

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My coaching theory is based on the ability to think of the dater like a “product” that we are selling online to the right “buyer”. We need the right pictures, the right product descriptions the right launch strategy to make things happen. Most of my clients are single professionals who are focused on finding a […]

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